New Developments Parents We have joined the family support network which was launched in City Hall in November 2010 and was attended by our Father's Group with group facilitator Patrick Cooney. We are a leading and key group in this network and have began engaging with more services around the city. Our Father's and Mother's groups are proving very successful and providing an outlet for the respective parents of young people in our service. These take place on Tuesday and Wednesday evenings. A psycho educational group is run by Fionnuala Sheehan on a Monday over 7 weeks for parents of boys who will engage with residential treatment. It looks at nurturing behaviours within the family. Spreading the Word Olive O'Riordan, the Manager of Cara Lodge has been invited by Dr. Ciara Staunton, Centre for Adult Continuing Education, University College Cork to deliver a lecture in mid December on her work to the Diploma in the Psychology of Criminal Bahaviour class. Olive also did a presentation titled 'Young People-Substance Abuse and Misuse' on an Understanding Juvenile Offending Workshop at Griffith College Cork in November. In January MTS will again travel to UCC this time to the Law Faculty to address the LLM Criminal Justice Class. The lecture will involve a general overview of MTS and our perspective of the impact of addiction. CARA LODGE NEWS One young graduate from Cara Lodge came in to talk with the boys about his experiences and his journey from Cara Lodge to UCC where he is now studying for his degree in Youth and Community. Psycho Educational group work continues to run every Tuesday morning. Core areas of discussion and activities are drug types, drug use, anger management, communication, and relationships. Young people also request other topics, these have included natural highs, long-term effects of drug use and a request for sexual health information. The group report they find group discussions informative, interesting and at times challenging. A parental support service, for the parents of the young person in treatment in Cara Lodge, was reintroduced in July 2010. This service offers parents an opportunity to explore their needs and develop skills to support and enable their sons to make alternative life style choices. This level of support provides valuable insight into the changing and on going needs of the individual and the family. However, this is a new service and funding is being sought to sustain this. Sharon O'Donovan,Child Care Coordinator is completing a Sexual Health Awarness Course with the HSE, this intensive programme will help the organisation develop robust policies for dealing with young people and their sexual development. The boys recently built a working Go-Kart with the help of staff members Mike Fox and Paul Kingston. Well done. Young People's Trabeg Lawn Achievements Awards 2010 On 21st April 2010 Trabeg Lawn had the honour of awarding 18 remarkable young men for their achievements following treatment both at Cara Lodge Treatment Centre and on an outpatient basis in Trabeg Day Service. This was an extremely special day and the celebrations were marked by the presence of the young people's families and guests, Matt Talbot Services staff, Board of Management members, Politicians and dignitaries. We were delighted to have the wonderful Lord Mayor Counsellor Dara Murphy and his beautiful wife Lady Mayoress Tanya Murphy who very kindly presented the achievement Awards to the Young People. Dermott O'Connell (Board of Management Member)commenced the proceedings by welcoming everyone and spoke of how honoured he was to be present for the Young People's awards. Following this Edel Foley (Manager of Trabeg Lawn) gave an uplifting and emotional speech about the journey of each young person and more importantly their incredible courage, determination and resilience. She also spoke about each individual young person's achievements and how proud the whole of the Matt Talbot Services were in being 'a little nugget' in hopefully assisting the young people reaching their true potential. Edel gave special recognition to the young people's families and acknowledged their courage in trusting the MTAS staff's direction at times when it was difficult; for hanging in there in times where they felt like throwing in the hat; but most of all by never wavering in their true love for their children. Edel also gave recognition to certain staff members who helped make the day possible: She spoke about Geraldine Ring (Director MTAS)as being the vision behind MTAS services. She recognised the Board of Directors and their tireless work for the organisation. Cara Lodge, with special thanks to Olive O'Riordan for very kindly offering Cara Lodge as the venue for the special day and also Paul Kingston for constructing the 'WALK OF FAME'. Jason Cowell, Counsellor,is facilitating the creation and painting of a mural in our waiting room in Trabeg. A group of young people from Jason's after-care sessions are returning to help design and draw this mural. They have very positive outcomes from their treatment and would like the mural to be an inspiration for other young people who are starting out in MTS. Lord Mayor Awards Lord Mayor of Cork, Dara Murphy, has very kindly chosen MTAS to be one of his chosen voluntary organisations in 2010, and we received an award of €600 which has contributed to the refurbishment of the waiting room at our premises in Trabeg Lawn, Douglas. 'Heal Your Life' Funding has been secured to run the Louise Hay, 'Heal Your Life' programme. The Louise Hay 'Heal your life' program is a personal development course run by MTS for mothers of the young people attending both the day service in Trabeg and residential treatment in Cara Lodge. The course helps these mothers identify their limiting beliefs about themselves and about life through a variety of exercises - learn to change those beliefs to ones that build happier, more successful lives. These mothers then can lead by example so that their son's will be inspired and motivated to improve their own lives through upskilling and education. "Every thought we think is creating out future" - Louise L Hay.Heroin Awareness Training Heroin Awareness training was held in late August, this was delivered by Merchant's Quay Ireland and our partner agencies were also invited to attend. Attendees included An Garda Siochana, Young Person's Probation, Fellowship House, Orga Chorcai and Tabor Lodge. The workshop provided a great insight to the issues surrounding heroin use. Topics covered included; What is Heroin; the History of Heroin; Heroin; The Irish Situation; Heroin and Withdrawals; Heroin and Safer Injecting. Many thanks to all for their participation. att talbot drugs awards young people cara lodgeA new training & activity programme was launched in Summer 2010 in conjunction with Probation Service & FAS. Diarmaid O'Cadhla One Systems, Cork MTAS new website Facebook page Twitter July 2010 Lord Mayor of Cork, Dara Murphy, voluntary organisations award of €600 james omahoney jlo irish red cross host teenage disco in aid of mtasMatt Talbot AIB Better Ireland ClonakilityKinsale & District Lions Club MTAS motor bike run donation €3,000 Diarmaid O'Cadhla One Systems Matt Talbot Services laptop drug & alcohol misuse for Young People MTASKevin Murphy UCC Pharmacy Matt Talbot Services ACAMH adolescent benzodiazepine" />

Comments from Young People attending Matt Talbot Services 2012

Posted by: Editor | Wednesday, April, 04, 2012 | Share / Save this article


“Without Matt Talbot I would not be alive today.”

“Good to be back to visit my counsellor who helped me get clean and sober and help me in my recovery.  Very grateful for this service and for the wonderful help and people I met on my journey.”

“Just popped in today with my son to say “Hi”.  We have come along way since our first visit in 2009.  My son is now sober and clean for 1 year.  We take one day at a time.  When we came to Matt Talbot I wanted a quick fix thankfully the staff hung in there with me as well as my son.  Be gentle with yourself and take the help, support and guidance and you will get though this, thanks to all the staff from a grateful mother

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Comments from Young People attending Matt Talbot Services 2011

Posted by: Editor | Thursday, May, 12, 2011 | Share / Save this article


‘A decent place. Thanks’

‘Trabeg and Cara Lodge are a lot of help when you need to talk to someone.  They’re a cool bunch!’

‘I am missing Trabeg.  They’re a cool lot.  They’re great.  Can’t wait to see them again and I will call in soon.’


Comments from Parents of Young People attending Matt Talbot Services 2010

‘On a social visit today.  Working with Matt Talbot staff since 2007.  Brilliant people! Our son has returned and seen the light.  Best of luck to all.’

‘I am coming here two weeks with my son and I find that the staff are extremely friendly and helpful.  I am very grateful for all their help.  It’s great that there is help out there for young adolescents. Thanks.’

‘As a Mother there isn’t a day goes by that I don’t think of all Young People, Adults and Staff caught in the cycle of Addiction.  For me, Trabeg was the beginning of breaking the cycle.  It’s an ongoing journey for us.  One we don’t know why we had to go on.  It probably makes us who we really are, eventually.  There is hope! Don’t give up.  Thanks for everything, today and always.’

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POETRY (from Young People in Cara Lodge 2011)

Posted by: Editor | Thursday, April, 28, 2011 | Share / Save this article


MY LIFE WAS…...

My life was hard, When I used to use,
I took drugs, And lots of booze.

The weed was my friend, We used to get along,
Upstairs in my house, We smoked a bong

I smoked weed, And snorted coke,
I drank a lot, And smoked some dope.

Life was shit, It helped me cope,
But now I know better, I’m full of hope.

Now I’m in treatment, To get me life back
I have a future, To get back on track

I looked at my drug use, And drinking ways,
Its good to look back to the old days

Now I know better not to use,
Its better than sitting at home drinking booze,
Cause Now I realise Im not a fool,
Drink and Drugs are not longer my tool.

FOR WHAT I’VE DONE

I’m really sorry for what Ive done,
I hope you still see me as your son.

I know it was hard to raise me good
And I know you have done everything you could.

Don’t blame yourselves for anything I’ve done.
It was my fault and I know full well.

I wrote this to say sorry from the bottom of my heart
for all my behaviour from the start.

I’d love to know how you were feeling,
While my behaviour was going through the ceiling.

I don’t know where it came from,
I don’t know why,
But I’ll be more happy to say good bye
To all the things I’ve done in the past
And I hope in the future that I’ll have a blast.


My Name Is Jack

“My name is Jack,
I’m fed up with life on my back,
I want to get my life back on track!

I don’t like thinkin’
Because I sink into the past
It’s all too fast.

So, then I drink and smoke lots of weed
To get away from all those memories!

I got into trouble, then I start to ‘rumble’
Life starts to be hell in my head.

I see four walls
And there is nothing that I can do
But sit and stare
I am left to stew
It’s not fair and people stare!

My life is now back on track
I won’t ever get the sack
Today I wonder what it means to me

Now, I’m in recovery….
Life will be kinder,
Just you wait and see….”


CHANGE

“I’m hoping that I will succeed,
Get past this world of drink and weed,
Forget the past that’s all gone,
I’m here right now to change my wrong

The change I wish to make today,
Is 4 my life 2 change in a big way,
To show them all that it’s still me,
Just smothered by a drugged up junkie

Drink was strong but now its not,
I’ve showed my strength by quiting pot,
The weed how strong it used to be,
But now can’t quite get hold of me

I’ll drink because I want to drink
But now I’ll stop and have a think,
Go back the way I was one day,
Or else John James is here to stay

Now things are good and things are great,
I’ve got the best things on my plate,
I’ll say it once, I’ll say it twice,
Without the drugs I have a life!”


FINALLY IN CONTROL

“As I lay in my bed,
Feelings and thoughts race around my head
It’s like a never ending mystery
Why do these thoughts always attack me?

I think to myself “how did it start?”
I’m looking for the answer deep down in my heart.
I never thought that you had such power
To change a person in an hour.
You took away my many skills
But then again you gave me thrills.

As much as people might pretend
You aren’t worth it in the end.
Once you might have been my friend
But look at the things you have left me to mend.

I have my counselling to keep me straight,
All that’s left for you is hate.
I have my family session to sort out my aggression,
Being with you gave me nothing but depression.

After 15 weeks I’m plenty strong
I’m ready for you, So bring it on.
Mr Relapse, I have just the plan
So come and fight me like a man.
I’ll be waiting for you
With two strong fists and 30 high risks”

 

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